Who would like to do that? But strangely enough we often do things that actually sabotage our efforts to become confident. We all want to build up our confidence but do you subconsciously sabotage your efforts?
Do you always try very hard to show your ‘Confidence’ but do not actually have any confidence?
You are not the only one with this problem. There are a lot of people struggling with this problem everyday. Do you know what happens when you resist a thought? It persists. Now tell me when you choose to become confident? What is your main reason? Do you dislike being not so confident? Do you hate the idea of low confidence? Did you go through a bad experience due to your lack of confidence~Do you get bad time due to your low confidence}?
You may have some unconscious blocks that stops you from becoming a confident person. Want to find out what these blocks are? You might believe you will never be a confident person, but this belief is not based on fact - it is simply based on your way of looking at things.

What are the common blocks that stop you from being confident.

Don’t Deserve to be confident

Difficlut to fathom but lots of people have such a problem. Consciously you say that you want to be confident yet deep down you think you don’t deserve it because you are not good enough as a person. Its the same as thinking you do not deserve to be happy. Until you resolve this block, it will be difficult to reach your goals.

You are afraid to be confident

Sometimes, people fear success as much as failure because of the changes it brings to their lives. It’s the same with confidence. if you choose to become confident, things are going to change in your life. A lot of people find change to be a very scary thing.

Do you believe confidence means arrogance

Perhaps you have met people who seemed overly confident - so confident in fact that they came across as arrogant and rather obnoxious. You might be worried that your confidence levels will be unstoppable and transform you into someone you don’t like.
You think certain people are born with a confidence gene and are ‘lucky’

You fear what others will think of the new, confident you.

Most of us care deeply what others think of us. Because a lack of confidence is so prevalent in our society, we are often surrounded by other people who are just as unconfident as we are. This often gives us a sense of belonging. Our friends and family probably reinforce that. Sometimes we have to change a few things in our life in order to become more confident and the ones who love us may not like this idea. Sometimes they may feel threatened and you may worry that you will lose some friends.

You may belive that you are very shy and you cannot be confident
Surprisingly people thing being shy means you should not be confident. In fact if you are shy getting rid of shyness should be a good reason why you want to become confident

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